Thank you!
Changing the world, two words at a time
By Cheryl Grace
“You
have the power to make someone’s day”
—Dan
Zadra
It seems like people are
frustrated about everything these days and can’t wait to share their story with
you. Whether it’s the about the state of the economy, health care issues, or
the fears and frustrations associated with the job market, people want to
complain. Positive stories are rarely seen on the evening news and, if they
appear, they have to include an adorable animal to arouse even a snippet of
compassion.
To accept life just as it
is, including life’s ups and downs is to understand what the Yin-Yang
philosophy is all about. The ebb and flow of life is Nature’s way of balancing
the extremes. The housing market is a prime example of bringing order to chaos.
For many years the booming real estate market was fueled by greed rather than
by a genuine increase in the actual, intrinsic value of our homes. Ultimately,
something had to restore balance, and so the housing and real estate industry, having spiraled out of control, finally spiraled
downward. Once you accept that this as part of the natural cycle of life, you
don’t get caught up in your own expectations of how life should conduct itself.
Perfectionists spend the
majority of their life trying to create near-perfect conditions by controlling
their career, their relationships, and their appearance. Instead of being
content and thankful for what they already have, they strive for something better.
Being attached to perfection fuels your competitive spirit.
It’s easy to say thank
you anytime someone gives you a gift or does something nice for you, but there
are other blessings around you that are equally opportunities to be grateful. Having
a blissful night of sleep, rising to a sunny (or rainy) day, enjoying the work
that you do, having loving family and friends, and having enough money to pay
your bills is just the surface of all the things to be grateful for. Say thank you out loud at every opportunity.
And, as you make a routine of it, you’ll become more aware of how many things
are really going quite well for you, regardless of what is going on with the
rest of the world
When you’re able to start
your car on the first try, say thank you. You’re acknowledging that it’s
working properly and you’re able to get on your way. Resist charging through
yellow lights at intersections; you’re being asked to slow down your pace and
become safer in doing so. Should you get a traffic ticket, say thank you. The
Universe cares about your safety and that of others. Now envision everyone in
the world becoming more relaxed and peaceful because they feel good.
Saying thank you—and
saying it often—trains you to respond differently to the dramas of life. You’re
automatically developing compassion, understanding, and empathy by pushing away
critical viewpoints. Accept every compliment you receive sincerely and
graciously with a thank you. Be grateful for everyone who believes in you,
cares about you, supports you, helps you, understands you, and trusts you. Even
the electrical company trusts you when they provide service to your home. It
means you have the ability to pay. Say thank you when you turn your lights on!
Encourage instead of
criticizing, and never give up on anybody. If we each do our part to care, we
can change the world two words at a time.
Thank you!
Cheryl
Grace is a professional feng shui consultant and a Hay House author. Feng Shui
Simply: Change Your Life from the Inside Out will be available on 5.1.13 at
various book outlets. For more information on feng shui, visit
www.CherylGrace.com.
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